Sunday, February 21, 2010

I Need Myself a Wingman...

I love Ted Mosby. I guess he's the guy I've been waiting for forever. He says the right words, he's a huge nerd, he loves babies, and he's not afraid to say "I love you" then and there.

When Shang asked me to watch How I Met Your Mother because she said I remind her of Lily Aldrin, I bought myself a copy of the series again, just for the heck of it. And last night, I had a realization on the news about crushie finding a girlfriend. And that was Season 4, smacking in front of my face. For those who haven't watched the season yet, this is quite a spoiler, so its your discretion to read or not. hehehe.

"And that was it. That moment I wasn't angry anymore. I could see Stella was meant to be with Tony. Kids, you may think your only choices are to swallow your anger, or throw it it on someone's face, but there's a third option, you can just LET IT GO. And only when you do that is, its really gone and you can move forward. And that kids, was the perfect ending to a love story. ITS JUST WASN'T MINE. MINE WAS STILL OUT THERE, WAITING FOR ME" -- Ted Mosby, How I Met Your Mother

What followed was looking at my phone and seeing that the date was one of my favorite days in the calendar. Or what used to be one of the most important date. Now I'm not sure about the time frame, but the characters at HIMYM stated different theories on how long does it take to get over your former relationship. Marshall said it takes half the time you were with a person to get over them. So it will take me a year and a half? God, I hope not. I would rather be like Barney's "the moment she walks out of the door, kablam! Over" LOL. But anyway, I don't suppose I am. After all, the dating and stuff, I think I need all the break I can get to be back in the game. I don't want to make the same mistake as I did with Kyle. Good thing I turned him down or I will be very miserable. Guess that only shows I love myself more than anything he wants to offer me right?

What matters now is accepting that my perfect love story is brewing somewhere. And just like Ted Mosby, I am making a pact that I will always believe in the concept of love. No matter how painful your last was, or when you felt like you're going to die of humiliation when you bump into his friends and they all think you're still together, or when you start dating and just feel like it still isn't what you're looking for, I AM NOT GIVING UP HOPE. Because no matter how shallow it is to find true love in this world, I know it still exists. And it will stay, mushy as it may seem. :)

So speaking of wingman, Karch is brewing something up. And I know it is best served hot. XD I can't wait for it, and if it doesn't work out, just like Kyle and Mcdreamy, then you move along to the next fish. Because that's life. It will happen, if its supposed to happen. And so, I quote Ted Mosby again with:

"The greatest moments of your life wont necessarily be the things you do, so also be the things that happened to you. Now Im not saying you cant take action to affect the outcome of your life. YOU HAVE TO TAKE ACTION, and YOU WILL. But never forget that on any day, you can step out the front door and YOUR WHOLE LIFE CAN CHANGE FOREVER. You see the UNIVERSE HAS A PLAN, Kids, and that PLAN IS ALWAYS IN MOTION. A butterfly flaps its wings and it starts to rain. Its a scary thought, but its also kind of wonderful. Are we all part of the machine? Constantly working, making sure that YOU END UP EXACTLY WHERE YOURE SUPPOSED TO BE, EXACTLY WHEN YOURE SUPPOSED TO BE THERE. THE RIGHT PLACE, AT THE RIGHT TIME"

Genius, just pure genius. What Up?!? God, Barney's rubbing into me. LOL.


Ive had my lucky moments and not so lucky period last Friday. But since I rarely win in contest, THIS made my day. Premiere night tickets to see It's Complicated! :) My friend was supposed to set me up with this guy, but I have to take a rain check. This month have been rough for my Mom and I, that I invited her to see it with me instead. After all, I need all the approval I could get. I needed her to accept who her daughter is, especially during this time. :( But I will be happy. Now I just have to wait for seven more months. :)

Anyway, I have to go. I'm supposed to sleep early now, whether I want to or not. That makes me sad. Just when I want to watch Season 5. :P

Night night dearies! :)

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